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Yes. Each of you needs your own phone with the app. You don’t need an email address or phone number for an account.

One of you opens “Invite your partner” and shows the code, the other scans it with the app. Ideally you sit next to each other. If that isn’t possible, you can send a link. You then quickly compare a safety code of ten symbols, for example on the phone.

An invitation code can only be used once and is valid for 24 hours. Just create a new one.

No. Our Question Diary is deliberately built for exactly two people.

Only the ones you share. Notes on a question always stay private, even when you share the question.

Yes, as long as the other person hasn’t answered yet.

Answers only become visible once you have both answered, so you don’t influence each other. Until then, the app only shows lines as a placeholder.

You can change it as long as the other person hasn’t answered yet. You can withdraw your answer at any time. It then also disappears from the other person’s app.

From the German conversation game “… einfach reden!”. If you add a prompt, it becomes a private question of yours. You can share it like any other question.

Install the app, choose “I already have an account” and enter your twelve-word recovery code. The app then restores everything, including your connection.

With your recovery code you can restore everything on a new phone. Without the code that is impossible, even with our help, because we could never read your content.

In the settings under “Recovery code”, after unlocking. Write it down on paper and keep it safe, not as a photo or in a cloud.

Your answers and comments disappear from the other person’s app, and theirs from yours. The questions stay with both of you. The other person gets a notification that something has changed about your connection.

Yes. Under “Separate” there is a test mode. It shows how the app would look afterwards. Nothing is deleted, and the other person doesn’t notice.

Yes, for one year, but only together. After that you are separated for good, and the server deletes everything belonging to your connection.

The key to them is withdrawn. If the other phone is offline at that moment, it can still read your answers for at most 7 days. We cannot delete screenshots.

When the other person shares a question, when both answers become visible, for new comments, one reminder after a week, and a look-back “one year ago today”. You can switch off each kind separately.

No. Notifications never contain the text of a question or answer. You only see it in the app, after unlocking.

In the settings under “Delete account”. The server deletes everything immediately, and your content also disappears from the other person’s app.

Yes, in the settings. The file is not encrypted, so keep it somewhere safe.

Nothing. There is no subscription, no advertising and no features that cost extra.